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Wednesday, June 23, 2010

How to Keep Friendships

During my research for my sister's project,

I found something interest on one of the article..

it desire to me to look futhermore..

Then I also would like to share with you, People..

How to maintain friendship:

1.Be unselfish with them.A friendship cannot just be about yourself. If you are only thinking about yourself, and never this persons needs

2. Show them support. When things are going wrong in life. Whether it's a girl or boyfriend problem, that's when you need your friends the most. Give them honest support when they're down.

3. give them honestly. If you want to keep people around in your life, stop lying to them. If you're honest to them, there's a good chance they'll be honest with you. If you are constantly lying all the time, they are not going to trust you.

4. avoid jealousy. Friends actually can become very competitive, especially if they're close.

5. give them real respect.

6. Being a loyal friend. Loyalty is one the great ways to maintaining any kind of relationship. Where you prove your loyalty, and never sell your friendship with this person short.

7. Display understanding, non-judgmental behavior and an interest that you desire what is best for your old friends.

8. Call your friends once a month, at the very minimum, to show concern.

9. Participate in fun activities with your friends. Going out to an occasional movie, date hunt or sports activity can give a friendship that suffers from too much intimacy, vitality and lightness.

10. Be willing to step out of your comfort zone to help a friend in need. When there is a conflict between your ego and your old friends, choose your friends.

" don't read it only, but action plan"

Hope you guys practice on this topic and this topic may help you in your friendship:)

Life is good..XOXO:)

Monday, June 21, 2010

Philosophy

"if we are mature enough to love someone,we must become more tolerant towards this person"
"girl can't be understood, she can only be loved, so the happiest woman in the world is the one whose husband loves her alot and tries not to understand her at all.."
" man mustn't be loved alot, he must be well understood, so the happiest man in the world is the one whose wife loves him a little and understands him alot."

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Photo of the week

Hey, People...!!
How was your weekend?
Hope you enjoy your weekend, guys..
I had a great weekend:)








Good Night, People:)



Happy Fathers Day

Hey, People...!!
Today is fathers day...
Hope you spent your time with your daddy:)
I wish I am at my home town to celebrate father's day with my lovely family..
unfortunately, I am not able to go back to my hometown..
I would like to say:

Happy Fa
ther's day To My lovely Daddy:)

He who is taught to live upon little owes more to his father's wisdom than he who has a great deal left him does to his father's care.
We love you, dad:)
Xoxo

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

L.O.V.E

"Love is always open arms. If you close your arms about love you will find that you are left holding only yourself.”


I found a website for my inspiration of wedding..

Even I dont have any planning for my wedding yet...

it's good for me to know it for my inspiration

Thank you

Monday, June 14, 2010

Communication is our lifeblood

"Never Assume that you know what another person means"
" Treat other people in the way they wish to be treated, not necessarily as you wish to be treated"

dot dot strawberry music

Hey, People...!!
I received some gift from my colleague..
they are cute and unique free gift...
Love them so much^^



-music box-




-Lovely magic bag-

P.S Thank you to people who always cheer me up when I was down.
Thank you being with me when I was up and down...
Love you guys:)


Thank you, There for the gift:)
You know you love me...
xoxo


If I could...

IF I Could , I wanna run away from this hell...
IF I Could , I wanna back to my childhood times...
IF I Could, I wanna share some of joy to them...
IF I Could, I wanna give my Love to Them...
IF I Could, I wanna have a time to be with them...
IF I Could, I want.....,,,,
But, it' s too late for all of these...!!
it won't be change to positive perception..
it's very hurt, no one able share your burden.
and I know He will hold my hand
and bring me with Him
walk together with Him..
All I can say:
I Love Them More than I love my self...
Thank you for everything...:)
xoxo

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Edward Cullen

Hey, People...!!

There is a news for you...!!

Let's celebrate Edward Cullen birthday together at National Library Bugis...
It will held on 20th June 2010
The event star 4.00 pm



You need to register first...

send all your details to this email:

See you guys there...:)
Enjoy the party:)

a reason hide behind scene..

did you believe on first sight?
and did you believe when some one tell you that " he/ she like you?"
even you guys has never met for couple of years..
for me, it's such a weird situation..
perhaps, there is a reason hide behind scene...
and then when you met someone..
are you only focus on beauty?
only they know about that...
again, there is a reason hide behind scene..
we will not able to find out the answer..
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just wonder sometimes those people do not how to balance their time?
those people spent much time with lovely than besties
then when those people had a break moments,
for sure, those people look for their besties to comfort them
As a besties, we are able to give our charity...
in here, charity means giving, loving and caring...
so remember and appreciate every moment that you spent with your besties...
and they have their purpose and reason behind to do that..
be open your mind...
accept them as you are...

"It's not about how much you have, how much you know, or how much you
do. It's about how well you love. Love is what matters most."


"Life is like a coin. You can spend it any way you wish, but
you only spend it once"

Inspiration by some one...

lovely glamour pink

Hey, People..!
how was your weekend?
Hope you had a great weekend, people!!


-Angel's Dress senze-

-Lovely flower senze-
-650GB Samsung Pink S2 Portable-

-MCD Pink World Cup Glass(only for this week)-

-Pink Sony Loudpseaker-

-Received Free Voucher 4D from Popular-

Wow, Love them so much...
Thanks to BB and R to heard all of my mumble word:p
I have no idea what should I do for the free voucher??
anyway, I would like to congratulation for new couple
Mr & Mrs Tan Wei Siang...
Had a great Wedding Party...
Wish you guys had a bless day every moments..:)

Thursday, June 10, 2010

without you~(it's only for you)

Hey...!!
I create all of these for him...
it's only for him..!!
all of these express my feeling right now...
I am looking forward to meet him another 2 months...
Hope God always bless our relationship...
Hope I never tired and give up for the moments that we spent together...
Wish us always, guys..!!



it ain't about how long that you wait....
it ain't about the time...
it's all about togetherness, happiness, and joy...
when he ain't beside you..
just remember your moments with him...
when no one unable to share your sorrow...
Just call him and share with him the sorrow that you feel..
or just remember the happiness when you be with him...
There is no distance among of you...
Trust, understand and communicate are the keys of relationship.....
be with him/ her when he/she needs you .....
Love and care are key of happiness ......
work together to achieve your dream ......
Your dream is your life...
Appreciate everymoment with your love one...

Another Tv Series..!!

Hey, People...!!
if you feel bored or nothing to do at home?
I would like to recommend a new tv series for you:

Pretty Little Liars is a new tv Series...


the below is preview video of pretty little liars:





and click here for their official website:)
Hope you guys are enjoy with their show...
I will watch it too:)
xoxo

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Compromise, Collaborate and Negotiate your way

Hey, People..!!
I just found out some of carreer article..
I guess it might useful for me to improve and upgrade my self...
I just want to share with you guys " how do you handle when some one shouts at you?"
Here's a few things you can do:
1. Speak in conversational tone
2. Don't raise your voice
3.while listening to the other person, take several deep breaths, make sure you expel most of the air from your lungs to rid the carbon dioxide.
4. listen to understand, not to disagree
5. state your opinion confidently
6.manage your ego and your temper
7.it's only an opinion from the other
8. Don't go to war with words.
9. Remember the importance of the relationship
10.Don't use words that you will regret later
11. words can kill
12. Don't call names
13. Go hard on solving the problem from all angels, be soft on the person.
I am here to wish all of us are able to maintain this kind of situation...
Good Luck, People..!!
Hope this article might useful for you too:)

IT Show

Hey Guys...!!


I just wonder why everybody excited about PC Show??


Perhaps, you may get cheaper price than normal...


Not only that, You may get more freebies or free gift..


For those people who are waiting for the PC Show...


here it is:


See you guys at there:)

I may visit there as well...

Monday, June 7, 2010

no one can share her burden~~

when we were born in the world...
who was the first person that you saw?
I guess your parents were the first person saw you in this world..
when you fall sick, who was the person take care of you?
Feel gratitude to the one who take care and give birth of you...
but when we talk about life....
we are not able to predict our life...
God is the one who plan for our life..
but we are the one who must work hard on our life..
when come on burden or trouble...
who is the first person that you are looking for??
are they able to share your burden??
we are not able to face our burden by our selves..
we need someone..!!
but when she talks about burden, problem and others..
Who is able to help her?
I guess no one able to share her burden...
but only Him...!!
only Him know how she faces this life...
she keeps hoping to Him..
He is the one who always encourage her..
should she give up all of this?
she tells me that she has tired to face all of these...
especially by treating differently...
but whenever she comes to all of these,
she tries her self to be more positive....
it does not mean she hates her life...
she love her life...
but she just feel tired to face all of these...
every moment she hopes that she get spirit of God...
Because he strength her life..


i am officially missing you

I Love their voice...
I love the way she play the guitar..
Love them in first sight...
I Love all their video...
Enjoy, guys..!!

Sunday, June 6, 2010

Invest your dream for future..

Hey, People..!!
Don't be fear on your future...
Don't be fear on failure
face it with your action, word and plan
Face this life with smile...
Do whatever you want while you are able to do it...
Invest your dream for your future
for example, if you would like to learn some of part time courses to upgrade your self, just go a head..Don't because of money, you do not dare to do it...
just think as a positive way...
Invest it for your future purpose:)
Don't look at the past...
Plan for the future..
Learn from your past experience and mistake...
Don't waste your time anymore...!!
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Quote of the day:
"I am not afraid of tomorrow, for i have seen yesterday and I love today"

"For Tomorrow belongs to the people who prepare for it today"

Good Luck, People!!!

Photo of the week

Hi, people...!!
here are my photo of the week:






Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

Life is like a coin. You can spend it any way you wish, but you only spend it once..

Try to make your life meaningful every second, moment, time and hours...



Thursday, June 3, 2010

Wo dui ni men hen shi wang (Dissapointed)

I am sometimes dissapointed, but i love my life and I must believe that the dissapointments contribute something to what i love.
We love to expect and when expectation is either dissapointed or gratified, we want to be again expecting.
Spiteful words can hurt your feelings but silence breaks your heart
There is always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.

Motivational Article

Hey, Guys..!!
Hope you guys are doing great...
I would like to share one of the article that i read..
I hope this article is able to motivate you...
I really love this article..
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Monday
What day of the week do you dislike the most?I ask folks this question from time to time and more often than not, the reply is usually "Monday."When asked the reason, most would say "because I have to go back to work or school."Typical answer yet interesting. If one dislikes Monday because of school or work then why does one continue to go back to work or school? I believe that folks like this are probably in the wrong job or studying the wrong course and probably should look for something that enables them to enjoy Mondays - and every other day for that matter. Those who genuinely enjoy work or school probably wont give "Work or School" as the reasons they dislike Monday.
The Jigsaw Puzzle
Life is a jigsaw puzzle. You don't know whats going to go where, you don't know where the pieces are but you do know that you need to keep looking for the pieces and figure out where they go. All events that happen to you is a piece of your puzzle. if you are stuck in a rut at school or work and keep asking yourself the "what if" question then its a sign telling you that there are no more pieces of the puzzle to be found where you are.
Getting To The Point
Given today's technology, one can put wo/man on the moon, split the atom and even replace the keyboard with a single wheel. But what humans have not figured out is how to sell bottles of time on the shelf. Just imagine - you walk into a store and say "Gimme the usual bottle of an hour."Time is not on your side - its a friend for the duration for life but it never sides with you - never be under the assumption that time will favor you.
Self - Our Biggest Enemy
Many folks make excuses for themselves like "but I got no time to do X" or "by the time I get home I'm so tired." Folks like these are actually their own biggest obstacle because they build a tall wall of an excuse to do nothing.
If one can make time to eat, poo and pee then one can make time if they are passionate enough to start learning, experiencing, building or meeting. Lets encourage ourselves - not discourage buy making excuses.
The human race is still relatively young and we all have basic needs. One of the needs is to eat.If you just sat in front of your computer for hours on end, most of you will eventually get up from your desk and seek food.If there is nothing in the refrigerator or cabinets, you will either call for a pizza or go out to get something.If all the shops around you were closed, you would travel to another part of town to seek food. You could alternatively wait until the morning when the shops open but you will still go out to get food.The point I'm trying to make here is that if you really want something, you have the ability to get it.Some of us have health constraints that may prevent us from easily doing stuff but if you are relatively healthy and can easily move around then you really don't have any excuse to do nothing.
Wrap Up
If you are unhappy with your current line of work and presuming that you work for 8 hours, sleep for 8 hours and use the reminder of the 8 hours for commutation, hygiene, recreation and nourishment consumption - you are spending 33% of your life doing something that constantly fuels that burning question of "what if" - don't fuel that question anymore - go out and do something!
It could be anything from starting to meet recruiters, taking up a new course or activity, research, meeting people with similar interests and so on. I may make it sound plain and simple but in fact it is. Something leads to something. Nothing leads to nothing.
Money is indeed important in this society we live in and I understand that one may need to do something that one may not exactly like to make ends meet. But, one can also be doing something on the side at the same time (learning, experiencing, meeting) in order to fulfill ones real passion. If you truly believe in yourself, your skills and ability, then you will be successful anyway - meaning that if you are going to ditch a well paid job to take a risk of a lower paying position where you can fulfill your passion, you will eventually make it anyway - because its you.
Taking the leap from safe comfortable steady ground into an unknown void is not something that comes easily. Humans basic instinct is to protect itself and places priority on food and shelter and taking risks could affect these necessities.But life is not just about being comfortable - its about living your passion.You can spend most of your life doing something you dislike to bring in the money which pays the bills which enables you to go back to work another day to bring in the money which pays the bills which enables you to go back to work another day to bring in the money which pays the bills which enables you to go back to work another day to bring in the money which pays the bills...
Life is short. One may not appreciate just how short it is while we are young but really start to understand as we get older.
Hope this article may help your life too...
Have a nice reading:)

You are my best friend that I ever had

when I need help, you are the one who always help me..
when I feel bored, you are the one who always find something that make me unbored..
when I face a problem, you are the one who always give a positive way to solve it...
I still remember when we were hang out...
when we had chit chat at the cafe....
sometimes you make me anger, but the anger is not long lasting...
I try to find someone can replace you...
But no one likes you....
I miss hang out with you...
You are such a unique person...
Thank you for being my good friend...
I feel gratitude to have a good friend like you...
Keep our friendship always...

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

I Love this Lyrics

Friendship never ends
by Spice Girls
The time is now or never,
to fit the missing pieceTo take this on together,
you make me feel completeWe fall into the future,
and through the looking glassThe light shines over our heads,
and so it comes to pass
To go beyond the surface,
to reach into your soulThis love is not demanding,
my heart has told me soI hold onto my heroes,
with faith enough to flyThe power to imagine,
will keep this love alive
Let's make the headlines,
loud and trueI wanna tell the world I'm giving it all to you
Let's make the headlines, loud and clear
The best things suddenly happen when you are here
And if I lost my way you'd carry me home
Take me all the way to heaven, never leave me alone (everything)
And it's just like everything matters when you are near (matters when you're near)
And it feels so good every bells gonna ring
Your love is alive and it's making me sing
I could fly, wanna cry, want the whole world to know
We are together, come on baby let's go
And words yet to be spoken
Will fall upon the page
Spelling out true devotion
Is all we need to say
Let's make the headlines, loud and true
(Say you love me and I'll say I love you too)
I wanna tell the world I'm giving it all to you
(Just remember what simple words can do)
Let's make the headlines, loud and clear
(All that I have I give to you my friend)
The best things suddenly happen when you are here
(Just remember friendship never ends)
And if I lost my way you'd carry me home
Take me all the way to heaven, never leave me alone (everything)
And it's just like everything matters when you are near (matters when you're near)
(Say you love me and I'll say I love you too)
Let's make the headline true this time
(Just remember what simple words can do)
There's no hiding from this magical state of mind
(I feel loved with you, I feel loved with you)
And if I lost my way you'd carry me home
(I know, you take me, all the way to heaven)
Take me all the way to heaven, never leave me alone
(everything)
And it's just like everything matters when you are near
(matters when you're near)
(Everything matters, it really matters)
Lets make the headlines, loud and true
(I feel loved with you, I feel loved)
Lets make the headlines
Cause I'm giving it all
Yeah I'm giving it all to you


Independent~~

when we talk about independent, what does it mean?
well, we all must be independent..
we all are grow up, not a child anymore...
we should know how to make a decision by our selves...
independent does not mean we are unable to ask someone help..
but, we may listen others opinion or suggestion..
by listening their opinion/suggestion, we should know how to be a decision maker...
when i was young, i may need some help from my parents, friends and anyone around me...
but when i was away from my home, I did everything by my self...
but sometimes, when i need someone help, i will ask my parents, or friends or anyone's opinion..
Yes, I know that I am not fully independent yet..
I will try my best to be an independent girl...
Truthly, i have see many cases recently..
among of people are not able to make decision by their self..
they more concern on other's decision...
Well, this is your life..it is not others life...
you should know how to make a decision for your life...
you may listen their opinion, but don't ask people to make a decision for you...
Your life is your choices...
Don't be fear...!!
Pray to God, Talk with Him and walk with Him...!!
He will help you for every step you made...
So, Don't be a little baby anymore..
Wake up and Grow up independent:)
" Every human has four endowments-self awareness, conscience, independent will and creative imagination.These give us the ultimate human freedom...The power to choose, to respond and to change"
Good Luck, Guys..!!
Think of your self that You are able to do it
Be confident on your self
Don't be fear of fail:)

J.A.K.A.R.T.A

Meeting Session with old besties & Photo session with family and relatives:












it was a great holiday that i ever had..
Thank you for everything:)
I miss that moments...
Hope I can meet you guys again:)
xoxo

Photo of the week

Hey, People...!!
Due to my trip on last week, I am not able to update my blog...

Here are my photo of last week:









will update more pic for this week...
you know you love me...
xoxo:)

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Embracing True Love

T.R.U.E L.O.V.E
What does True love mean?
1. Love is patience
2. Love is Kind
3. Love is not envious Nor Prideful
4.Love is not Rude
5. Love is not self-seeking
6. Love is not easily angered
7. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices in the truth
8.Love always protects
9. Love always trusts
10. Love always hopes
11.Love always perseveres
12. Love never fails
I have learn alot from this book.
if you would like to read this book, maybe you may find it at book store.
This book called " Ilove"

Quote of the day

“Don't ask what the world needs. ask what makes you come alive. and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive"
" The doors we open and close each day decide the lives we live"