♥ Pinky Lover ♥

Sunday, February 28, 2010

a simple word but not an easy action...

Love and Respect your self..!!
Be confident on your self..!!
be patience...!!
Be a warm heart when some one look down on you..!!
Help others..!!
Learn and Grow up when you re failure...
Trust your self...
Forgive your enemies...
Love your enemies...
Love people around you...
Be Positive!!
To laugh often and much
To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children;
To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends;
To appreciate beauty, to find the best in others;
To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition;
To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived..
Do-So is important than Say-So
In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on

Saturday, February 27, 2010

This is my desire

this is my desire to honor you
lord with all my heart
i worship you
all i have within me
i give you praise
all that i adore
is in you

CHORUS:
lord i give you my heart i
i give you my soul
i live for you alone
every breath that i take
every moment im awake

lord have your way in me

Friday, February 26, 2010

How Did I Fall in Love with you!!

My friend shared this song in to facebook..

When I read the title of this song...

My heart told me I wanna to know what song is that??!!

So I quickly press play to the video that my friend shared...

I love the music and the lyric of that song...

How Did I fall in love with you by Backstreet Boy
Remember when, we never needed each other

The best of friends like
Sister and Brother
We understood, we'd never be,
Alone

Those days are gone, and I want you so much
The night is long and I need your touch
Don't know what to say
I never meant to feel this way
Don't want to be
Alone tonight

chorus:
What can I do, to make you mine
Falling so hard so fast this time
What did I say, what did you do?
How did I fall in love with you?

I hear your voice
And I start to tremble
Brings back the child that, I resemble

I cannot pretend, that we can still be friends
Don't want to be,
Alone tonight

chorus:
What can I do, to make you mine
Falling so hard so fast this time
What did I say, what did you do?
How did I fall in love with you?

Bridge:
Oh I want to say this right
And it has to be tonight
Just need you to know, oh yeah

I don't want to live this life
I don't want to say goodbye
With you I wanna spend
The rest of my life

chorus:
What can I do, to make you mine
Falling so hard so fast this time
What did I say, what did you do?
How did I fall in love with you?

What can I do, to make you mine
Falling so hard so fast this time
Everything's changed, we never knew

How did I fall, in love, with you?


Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Don't Care!!

I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

Why should I care what other people think of me? I am who I am. and Who I wanna be.

Let you judge and distribute some of rumor about me!!

eventhough I can't see and heard, but I can Feel!!

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

plan for your holiday in 2010

Seeking for Holiday in 2010?

No worries..!!

it suitable for people who love travel..

NATAS FAIR IS BACK!! (Singapore Area)

it will held on 26-28 February 2010 @ Singapore Expo Halls 4 & 5

MATTA FAIR IS BACK AS WELL (MALAYSIA Area Only)

it will held on 12-14 March 2010 @ PWTC

To find our more about these two travel,

Please visit this website:

http://www.natastravelfair.travel/front.php

http://www.eventogo.com/feature-events/malaysia/matta-fair.php

Have a nice holiday, People!

Monday, February 22, 2010

Leader

Hey, People..!!
Have you ever be a leader on ur working life, school life or personal life?
Are you a good leader?or poor leader?
Being a good leader is not easy...!!
in my view, there are some characteristic to be a good leadership:
*Discipline
* Respect on your group's suggestion or opinion
*Give a new idea
* Time management
*Decision Making
*ready to take new challenge
* willing to lead
* Positive thinking
* Know your team
* Meet your team
*Train and Grow your team
*Set an objective or goal
* Review the performance of each team member
* inspire and social with your team
* Communicate constantly
*Have a mentor or role model
* Plan your succession
anyway, Below are the leadership Quotes:
John Quincy Adams:
If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader.
Robert Greenleaf:
Good leaders must first become good servants.
Inspiration by writing this title on my blog from My little sister
If you think you have all the leadership skills, Prove and show to them..!! be more confidence and try be more independent..!!
Good Luck..Luph always..XOXO:)

Need you Now!!!

Picture perfect memories scattered all around the floor
Reachin for the phone cause I can't fight it anymore
And I wonder if I ever crossed your mind
For me it happens all the time

It's a quarter after one, I'm all alone and I need you now
Said I wouldn't call but I lost all control and I need you now
And I don't know how I can do without
I just need you now

Another shot of whiskey can't stop looking at the door
Wishing you'd come sweeping in the way you did before
And I wonder if I ever cross your mind
For me it happens all the time

It's a quarter after one, I'm a little drunk and I need you now
Said I wouldn't call but I lost all control and I need you now
And I don't know how I can do without
I just need you now

Guess I'd rather hurt than feel nothin at all

It's a quarter after one I'm all alone and I need you now

And I said I wouldn't call but I'm a little drunk and I need you now

And I don't know how I can do without

I just need you now

I just need you now

Ooo, baby, I need you now


By: Lady antabellum

I Luph This song so much...

It expresses my feeling right now!!



why do every galz like flower?


I'm curious...

why do every galz love flower?

during valentine day, birthday, and special day..

every man give a flower to his beloved...

truthful, I do not love flower at all..

I have no idea why i do not love flowers...

what are so special about flowers??!!


Income


Sunday, February 21, 2010

Happy to know you, Gals..!!

Great to know you gals..!!
eventhough we just met one times..

but I feel you gals are really friendly, outgoing, and rock..!!
I feel enjoy and convenience when I hang out with you gals..!!
You Gals are really Rock...!! Looking forward for next hang out, Gals!!



Pita and I



Mia and I



US




Darma, I and MIA





Bear Bear...

Hey People..!!
I left my blog for one weeks..
Princess Back!!

I received a new bear-bear..
their name are Louis and Seirra:)

Bear- Bear's Collection:








Prince



Louis


Seirra


Baby


Baobei


Chubby (Graduation day)


Where is the princess??:)

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Happy Chinese New Year and Happy Valentine

I am here to wish everyone have a great and memorable moments on your new year and valentine with your beloved...



I am going home sweet home today..



I will be off to write my blog....



I will not see you guys at here.....



Sorry for inconvenience....






I wish:



Happy Chinese New Year



and



Happy Valentine,



People!!


Take care....See you again..

Bubyeee:)



Monday, February 8, 2010

Work to Live...Dont Live to work

Hey, BEsties!!
Are you feel frustated on your job?
You do not know how to balance your personal life and work life?
Don't Worry..!!
I just discovered this article,I Think it is really worthwhile
Read this article for your knowledge:
I Hope you know what should you do for next step..!!
Ways to improve job performance.
1.Make the change.
If you want to improve the quality of your work, change how you've been doing things. See things in a different angle. Look for better or faster alternatives to get the same work done. The other thing to do is change yourself. You can't afford to remain lazy, disinterested, and uninitiated.
2.Think of the end result.
This is one of the ways to overcome procrastination and push you to take action. Project the image of your achievement of the desired goal. Visualize what it looks and feels like when you finished your task. Think of the compliments, acknowledgements, satisfaction and financial rewards.
3.Be punctual
One of the ways to improve work productivity is to come on time. Employers look at your tardiness when they do your performance appraisal.
4. Plan your work and set your priorities.
Plan your work before your start your day. Without preparation, you can feel overwhelmed. Set your priorities so that you can manage your working time effectively, finish your given task on time and reduce work stress.
5.Identify your strength and weakness.
Lack knowledge, interest or skills are some of the reasons for not getting your job done or producing unsatisfactory work. Identify your weakness so that you find a solution and make the appropriate decisions in improving work performance. Find your strengths and focus on them and use them to your advantage.
6.Pay attention to details.
Pay attention to the details in whatever you do. Strive for excellence instead of mediocrity. Check for grammars when you type your letters or memorandums. Avoid as many mistakes as you can. If you do make errors, learn from them, make corrections and don't repeat them. Get 7.organized.
Mess shows that you are disorganized. A clean desk and proper filing allow you to have a clear head and can improve your productivity in the workplace.
8.Improve your skills.
Learn on how to improve your interpersonal relationship, leadership and communication skills. These skills will assist you in improving your work performance, gaining cooperation and getting your message across to your colleagues, superiors or subordinates.
9.Become resourceful.
Study your job and find ways in improving work performance. You don't have to stick to the same old way of getting your tasks done. Take the initiative to do something more or different. Learn any new technology that can assist you and make your work easier.
10. Ask.
Ask when you don't know or don't understand. It doesn't make you look stupid. Instead it shows that you are interested and willing to learn.
11.Love what you are doing.
If you don't like your job, you will not feel motivated to work. You will waste your working hours on unproductive things like surfing the internet, checking emails, socializing and gossiping. Don't blame your employer. Instead, find out why you are reacting in such a way. When you get the answers, change yourself or change your occupation.

Effortless English

Hey, Friends!!

I just founded a website about how to improve your english easily.

Don't ever feel embarrase on your english!!

Personal Speaking, I think my english is not too good.
when I talk to someone, I think my grammar is really suck.
But, I never ever feel shy to talk with them..
I Believe I am able to improve my english...
BE Confident on your self!!

Keep practice and take action..

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Let's Study and Practice Together to improve our english..!!


50 ways to increase your productivity...

I am here to share some knowledge for you to increase your productivity...Goodluck, Dude:)

Here are 50 ways to increase your productivity and add hours to your day.

1. Take a break. You can’t always be working at optimum productivity. Instead, you should shoot for working in short bursts at your most productive times.

2. Set a timer for each of your tasks.

3. Eliminate all distractions. This includes the phone, email notifications, and having multiple web browsers open on the desktop.

4. Distractions should be avoided, but sometimes a bit of music in the background can help you focus. Of course, it doesn’t need to be heavy rock music, but a bit of Beethoven may do you some good.

5. Love what you do. Enjoying what you do is the ultimate way to increase your productivity.

6. Complete your most dreaded tasks first thing in the morning. Whichever activity you are dreading the most is probably the one you need to complete first thing in the morning.

7. Use JDarkRoom. This application allows you to write more efficiently by removing all distractions. You’re given an entirely blank page on which to type. This way, you’re not distracted by the web, e-mail, or IM. When you’re done, you can save your work as a text file.

8. Just start. Often times, starting is the hardest part. Once you get going, you will quickly get into a rhythm that could last for hours.

9. Everyone has a certain time of the day in which they are more productive than others. For me, it’s the morning. Find out when your prime time is for productivity and optimize your work schedule accordingly.

Notebook

10. Keep a notebook and pen on hand at all times. This way, you can write down your thoughts, to-dos, and ideas at any time. The key is to get everything out of your head and onto paper. This way, your subconscious mind won’t be reminding you about it every other second.

11. Write a blog to chronicle your own personal development and achievements. This keeps you accountable and always working towards self improvement and personal growth.

12. Plan out all of your meals a week ahead and make your grocery list accordingly. This will save you quite a bit of time and money.

13. Step away from the computer. The Internet has become one of the number one distractions. To increase your productivity, try to do as much of your work offline as possible. I do this a lot with my writing and have found it to be very beneficial to simply unplug.

14. Write out a to-list each day. I like to plan my day the night before. This way, I can get started on my most important tasks as soon as I wake up.

15. As you go throughout your day, repeatedly ask yourself, “Am I currently making the best possible use of my time?” This one simple question can be an excellent boost to your productivity.

16. Get plenty of sleep. When you work online, sleep can become a long lost memory. However, it’s important to get plenty of sleep so that your working hours can be as productive as possible.

17. Exercise. Research has shown that midday exercise boosts productivity and morale in the workplace. Take a short walk at lunch to maximize your productivity.

18. Organize your office. The piles of paper around your desk can be a huge barrier on your productivity. Optimize your time by organizing your office, setting up a system, and dumping the junk.

19. Outsource as much as possible. Here are just a few of the companies that will help you outsource your everyday tasks:

20. Use a Tivo or DVR to cut an hour-long television show down to just 40 minutes.


21. Turn off the TV. The average American watches more than 4 hours of television every day. Over a 65-year life, that’s 9 years glued to the tube. Turn off the TV and you are sure to get
more out of life.

22. Listen to educational audio books while you’re driving to work, cleaning the house, exercising, or cooking dinner. Audio learning has the power to add hours to your day. Not to mention, your cranium is sure to thank you for it.

23. Auto pay your bills. This will save you time and eliminate late fees and increased interest rates.

24. Read David Allen’s best-selling book Getting Things Done. This is one of the most important productivity books you will ever read.

25. Focus on result-oriented activities. Pareto’s law states that 80% of the outputs result from 20% of the inputs. This means that 20% of our actions result in 80% of the results. We must find the 20% that is creating the 80% of our desired outcomes and focus solely on those
activities.

26. Take shorter showers. This one may sound silly but it’s actually something I struggle with. I spend up to 30 minutes in the shower. Think of the time I could save simply by speeding up a bit.

27. Tell other people about your goals and you will instantly be held accountable.

28. Learn to say “No”. We can’t do everything and therefore we must learn when to say no in order to save our sanity.

29. Go on an information diet. Most of the world lives on information overload. We must eliminate mindless Internet surfing. Stop reading three different newspapers a day and checking your RSS feeds multiple times a day. Otherwise, you’ll never get anything done. The key is to limit yourself only to information that you can immediately take action on.

30. Find a mentor. By modeling after those who have already achieved success, you will save yourself a lot of time and energy.

Calendar

31. Write your most important tasks and to-dos on a calendar.

32. Set some exciting goals. Without worthy goals, you will never be motivated to get things done.

33. Learn keyboard shortcuts and create keyboard shortcuts with AutoHotKey.

34. Get up early before anyone else. Nothing beats a quiet house.

35. Don’t multitask. Research has shown that multitasking is not productive. For optimum productivity, focus on one thing at a time.

36. Reward yourself for finishing a big task.

37. Shop online whenever possible to avoid going to the store.

38. Batch similar tasks like blog writing, phone calls, email, and errands into a single batch. You will save time by completing similar tasks in one session.

39. Speed up your Internet with a broadband connection. This is the number one Internet time-saver. If you must use dial-up, then you can use accelerators like Propel and SlipStream to double or even triple your speed.

40. Start a polyphasic sleep schedule.

41. Improve your typing speed to save time.

42. Get rid of time wasters. This includes Instant Messenger, video games, Flickr, checking your stats 10 times a day, television, and extraneous Internet surfing.

43. Protect yourself from unnecessary phone time with caller ID.

44. Work from home and avoid the daily commute.

45. Many employers now offer direct deposit. If yours does, then be sure and take advantage of it and save yourself from a number of trips to the bank.

46. Prioritize your tasks ahead of time. By listing your tasks in order of importance, you can make sure that you finish all of your most important tasks during the day.

47. When your reading a book, just read the parts that you need and skip the rest.

48. Cook your meals in bulk so that you will have plenty of leftovers. Avoid having to cook everyday.

49. Learn to speed read.

50. Use Windows hibernation feature to avoid the slowdown of exiting and restarting Windows.

Sunday, February 7, 2010

A Special Thank you

A Big Thanks to Lord, My Family,My Grandmom, My Relatives, My Baobei & His Family, and all of my friends.

Thank you for supporting me all the times..

Thank you for showing me a better way on my life...

Thank you for hearing me when I was down..

Thank you for being patient to hear all of my grievance...

I'm Looking forward for next challenge to improve my life...

I Know it's just a begining..

No matter what, I am trying to improve my self to achieve my dream...

My dream is My Goal...!!


Thursday, February 4, 2010

J Share his experiences (a simple way)

Hey friends..!!
Have you ever think about your future?
Oh Come on..!!since we re still young, we must think of our future!!
Make a statement on your future!Do it and take action!!
Save more money!!
Secure your finance!!
I'm here to share J's Experiences




when I am having my breakfast, J comes toward me. we had a short term conversation. it might be useful for me. J shares his experince in term of relationship, make a friend, save money, needs and wants, and religion. He wanted me to think of future and Saving.we started our conversation from " old chang kee".

He: you re so rich...You bought an expensive breakfast."
Me: hahaha..it's okay. I love it. Once a week I bought the yu diao.LOL.
He: Alright. since you still young, you must think to save your money.

Wohoo...!!Someone have told the same statement to me before...!!
***************************************************************************************
His Experiences:

* Future and Saving Money:



when I was young, I did not have any money to support my life. I have to pay some debt that i borrowed from someone. I was worked at DMG Shanghai for 3 years. After I back from Shanghai, I paid all my debt to them. anyway, I was failed on my business last time. from now on, I started to think differently. I learn from my mistake.I and my wife stayed with my family. we stayed a same room with my brothers. (Can you imagine if you were his wife?) . finally, I bought a resell hdb for me and my wife to stay. on that time, I used my own money to pay the hdb since my wife did not work.

His advice:
Since you still young, try to think to save money. Make a statement on your own plan for your future. do some a record for your daily finance and set a budget for your finance. you must feel secure on your finance first, then you re able to buy whatever you wants. example, one day maybe you can afford to buy a resell hdb at singapore. (I Hope so)

* Needs and wants:

You must clarify what you needs and wants. Needs and wants are different. Don't because you want to follow a trend, you must buy the latest stuff that you do not really need its. ask your self what do you need right now? it's important for you to think what do you need? and what do you want?
(Yeah, you re right.But sometimes I cant control my self. anyway I am trying my best to figure its. again, Someone has told me the same statement before)

* Make a friend:

Since you re still young, expand your circle of your friends. Get to know more people. Network is important in our life. (Yeah, I am looking forward)

*Problem:
Problem is not comes to you, but you find a problem for yourself. Don't make your self to seek a trouble.

* Relationship:
~Communication is very important elements in relationship.Both parties must understand each other. if one party face a problem, the other party should give an advice and face it together. for example, when you look at the mirror, you need others to give you an opinion. you re here not telling your partner " you must do that, you must do this". you just give an opinion/ suggestion to her/him. let he/ she makes his/her own decision.
~yeah, we know humans has their own anger. whenever your partner is not a good mood, give him/ her a time to cool down first.
~ Don't ever take your work problem in to your relationship.

after he suffer on his life, he becomes successful now. eventhough he becomes successful on his life, he still practice what he said to me.He still save his money to survive his life.

Last, He told me: trust me!I had face its. you may start to save 70% of your salary.Learn from my mistakes.
Me: Thanks for sharing your experience.I will do it:)
He: Alright, I want to see you become successful in future.
Me: Amien:) I Wish...!!

A big Thanks for MR J.
I hope I know what exactly I need to do for the next steps:)

she yell on me!!!


Hey People..!!
What a pity day today..!!
Actually, I dont really care when she yell on me..
I dont even know what's going on??I just help people who asked me to arrange it.
Then I did it.
You may tell me a properly way. I think it must better than yell on me.!
Anyway,I dont like people yell on me!!
I don't want to argue with you..
I better keep a silent..!!
and I dont think it was my fault!!
Does she hate me?does she scare that i take over her jobs?
Damn!!
I never expect of good offering toward me.so you dont blame me about that!!
I have told you many times" I am not the one who did it" but you keep mumble on me!!
You yell me infront of many people..you may influence them and judge bad about me!
I don't really care!! I love who I am. So take your time to judge me then..
Yeah..!!sometimes jealous is one of negative elements in our life..
Hello..Come on!! you better throw of it!!
So..I never afraid to face life!!
I am not a little baby anymore..!!

a simple quote:
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.

I Love this Quote:
Don't be afraid to fail. Don't waste energy trying to cover up failure. Learn from your failures and go on to the next challenge. It's OK to fail. If you're not failing, you're not growing.

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

What is Income Tax??Do I need to Pay??!

Income Tax
Huh..!!I really don't understand..Crazy about that=.='''''
Should I care about it?
Everyone annoyed about income tax..
That's awkward..!!
Couple of weeks, S asked me about Income Tax matters.
I told him I dont really know about that. Maybe I can help you to check with my friends or my colleagues.
This morning, T told me about income tax.
Last,Should I ask my company about income Tax?or I should take action by my self?
Do I need to pay? or I just wait for the letter that they send to me?
Can someone tell me more details about income tax?
Friendly speaking, I dont care much about that.LOLZ.
But at the end of the day, I need to pay also..
Find out more...

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

I Love Him!!

Hey, People!!
Do you feel sick of your love relationship?
or
you dont know how to maintain your relationship.
visit this website for your knowledge:)
I hope this website/Article is able to help your relationship

My Experience:
First of all, I would like to say Thank you to God, my family and all of my friends.
Thanks for blessing us
eventhough we are far apart, but our heart never changes.
we have been four years and 2 months for our relationship
and we have been 1 year for long distance relationships
we support and help each other in term of happiness or sadness
How suffer I am when I miss him so much..
How suffer I am when I need him/ his help..
anyway, we still meet each other
call and text each other
webcam everynight.
I do love him...
May God always bless us everymoments..
May you guys still support and bless me and my love...











SUPERMODELME Season II - SINGAPORE- WALK IN Auditions

Hey friends...!!
I just found a website about supermodel audition
if anyone of you are interested to be a model,
please visit this website:
Maybe you are one of them
I wanted to join too..
But I dont have any confident
Good Luck, Dude...!!
*Make your dream come true*

Monday, February 1, 2010

Animal Lovers

Hey Guys and Girls..!!
I' m here to share some news special for animal lovers..
Have you ever thought of getting a pet?
Can't afford to buy it?
Don't Worry!!
You can adopt a pet whatever you love..!!
Please kindly visit this website for your information:
Have a nice day..!!
Take care..:)