Self Esteem

Hey, Readers...

Are you consider your self as a " high self esteem" or " medium self esteem" or " Low self esteem"?

I just read one of article , it's all about " self Esteem"

What does " self esteem" mean?

based on article, Self esteem is your opinion of your self.

if you are high self esteem, you will be confident, happy, highly motivated, and have the right attitude to succeed.

But...

if you are low self esteem, it comes from poor self image. maybe you could ask your self " Do you think you are good, reliable, hardworking, honest or friendly person? it means poor confidence and that also causes negative thougths which means that you are likely give up easily rather than face challenge.

I consider my self , I am a medium self esteem:)

There are some elements that you need to be happy with your self:)

1. Don't compare with others.

2. Understand your self

3. focus on your achievements no matter how small.

4. always try your self and you will be happy with your self.

5. be happy with your life as it is.

6. if you have faith use it. especially faith in God is very helpful to many of us.

7. finally enjoy your life for the gift it is.

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Skinned Alive

Hey, Readers..

I have something to share for you, people:)

what's in your mind when you read my title " skinned alive"?

Gosh, I really can't take it..

Get ready before you watch the video..

I am not able to share the video at here..

Sorry for incovenience...

maybe you can visit here (click on video Session)

Tell me your expression and how do you feel after you watch the video?

Good Luck, peeps:)

Cheers,

Shu Qin

xoxo

Relationship

When we talk about relationship, which relationship that you refer to?

it can be family,friendship, love, marriage and many others relationship..

in this topic, I will more concern on love relationship...

she is truly give me an inspiration..

will you sacrifice something to your loves one?

based on my point of view: definetly I will sacrifice for my loves one,so does everyone.

Can we ask people to change their attitude and behaviour for us?

Well, as I can said nobody is perfect in this world.

in this life, we come from imperfect look to be perfect.. Don't you think that?

it's hard to ask someone to change for us. why don't you try to change your self first before you ask some to change for you.

Try to accept one another, understand one another, love one another...

You have to walk carefully in the beginning of love; the running across fields into your lover's arms can only come later when you're sure they won't laugh if you trip~Jonathan Carroll, "Outside the Dog Museum"

Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction. ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, Wind, Sand and Stars, 1939, translated from French by Lewis Galantière

Mr H Opinion:

what must a woman/ a man do in finding a relationship or want to maintain the relationship:

1. find the man that really loves you

2. understand the man that you want him to love you

Cheers, babe..

Everything gonna be alright:)

Shu Qin

xoxo♥

Life & Loneliness

What does the life all about?

According to Mr.Mark Conner, Life is all about relationship.."Life is loving God and Loving People"

(I'm conscious your feedback about life)

Don't ever compare our life with others, it is always better or worse. it nevers equal.

Don't let our feeling is control by our condition. what others do or don't do must not be something that can control us.

(inspiration by one of my friend)

Be your self.!!never think about negative that make you grief, worry, despair and anger..!!

Throw them away..!!Cover all of these with your joy..!!

Don't allow worry to become like a prison that saps you of your joy, drains you of your energy and causes you to get caught up with your own needs. if you do, you will miss out on many opportunities to be blessing..

if you think you are not sattisfy enough with your life, why dont you think that other people's life more suffer than your life...

I can said" I am one of them..I never appreciate whatever I have now". Because of my greediness, I Should change it into Appreciate ..!!

Appreciate every single day that we face it daily...!!

I hope I am able to learn how to appreciate everything in this life:)

What does loneliness all about?

All of us come alone in this world. Don't you think that?

I can said: No..!!sometimes we need others to struggle together in this life..

Bring your independent to be Community part...

Remember, we re not alone in this world..you may share your barriers to the person who is trustworthy and you may ask them to pray for you..

we need people to assist us in becoming free...

In order to have whatever we want in this life, 2 things we need to do:

1. Constantly immerse ourself with all things that bring us power, ie. reading great books, listen to inspiring music, talk to great people, think inspiring thoughts

2. Avoid all that weakens you ie talk with negative people, keep complaining, mingle ourself for long period of time with losers, watch tv or news

(James A.Ray)

if you have a dream, you don't need to know how to get there...what is important is continuously feel as if you hv achieved ur goal and it can be achieved

To my Best buddy over there: " Dont ever think you are alone...whenever you need me, you may look for me.Feel empathy on you...!!Thank you for trust me to be your best buddy:)

Hope you can find it back soon:)

To Mr.H: Thank you for giving me your inspiration:)

Hope you guys enjoy :)

it's your move..!!

Cheers,

shu qin

Appreciate what God had Given to you..

Do you feel happy on your life?

Do you guys know what is the meaning of life? Let's we find out together..Please kindly share your life experience as well..

* My opinion about life is the process when you interact with others, environment and etc. it can be a good life, normal life, happy life, bad life and so on. it depends on how you survive on your life. But we must appreciate what God had given to us. I' m happy on my life. eventhough I had face a problem in my life. I try my best to figure out. The most important thing is be patient to solve your problem and pray to Lord. Dont ever use your emotion to face your problem. it will be worst. I'm happy to have people around me to keep encourage, support and love me.

* some of people said life is to learn and adopt. I agree for this point. We must be dare to face our life in this world. from our mistake that we done in our life, we are able to learn it.

* Different people has face a different life. Don't you agree?

*Have you do a good thing on your life? if No, You can start to do better thing on your life to colour of your life.

* Alber Quote: There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle. (God has sent a message for me)

* Anais: Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death.

So, Do whatever you want on your life. Don't be regret whatever you do in the past. Learn and observe it. Appreciate whatever God given to you. Just face your problem with smile.

Goodluck Guys!!

Are you a good planner?

Happy New Year to Everyone around the world..

Have you guys set a new goal in this year?What is your goal for this year??
when you create a new goal, you must think it carefully. you must do and take action for your goal. even you are a good planner, sometimes you are not able to handle some of situation that you are not expect. Because of some barriers, your goal will be effect.

Below of the link of article about good planners
http://www.reliableplant.com/Article.aspx?articleid=2012

Wish you guys good luck for This year. Achieve your goal. It' s the time to fight it!!

Note:

1. Do whather You want (Ask your self What exactly you want??!!)
2. Learn new thing to make your life better
3. Socialize to other person to know more other people life
4. Dont be shy!!Dont be scare to having a mistake. from mistake, you are able to improve it.
5. Talk more!!
6. Be patient!!
7. Be confidence on your self.!!
8. Pray and close To God

DO IT and TAKE ACTION..!!