Self Learning

When I did morning prayer, I found something really interest...

something came out of my mind...

it gave me an inspiration, spirit and movitation..

Not only that, it askes & pushes me to do something useful during my free time...

in other word, I MUST be more DISCIPLINE & FOCUS

if we really good enough to maintain and control both of elements, temptation will not influence us..

You may arrange your time (Time management) or To do list...

Do a gentle reminder for your self ..!!

I found that self learning is the best way to kill my boredom...

it is one of my goal as well...Never ever Give up..!!

Eventhough sometimes I feel difficult to learn, but I will take it as a challenge and learning...

You never try, You never know...Don't you think that??!!

I still remembered when I was child, I used to say "(Sebelum mencoba, pantang menyerah-Indonesia Version)" or (Before we try, dont ever give up)"

and I would like to learn not to say " Bored" & " Laziness" in my dictionary...

For me, it is a quiet waste time when we are doing nothing...

Sometimes, People around me wonder " what am I doing? keep move here and move there during my free time"

all I can say, maybe I was born in term of mother blood...(I just realised about it recently)

I prefer to make my self to be more efficient and effective...

I know everyone has their own goal...

so am I:)

Keep it up, Dude!!

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I feel gratitude to him (One of childhood buddies), He really teaches me alot...

He always give me an inspiration and motivation....

He loves to share something meaningful and useful to his friends...

Thanks, man:)

I hope you people never give up on your dream, goal and future:)

Quote for you:

let us not see back in the past in anger nor see our future in fear but see around us right now in awareness..

Cheers,

Shu Qin

xoxo♥

Photo of the week

Last week was a blessed day...
Mom came over here to celebrate L's Convo...
Mom brought me a dress...
Thanks, mom:)
To my lovely sister L:
Congratulation sister....!!
Fight for your dream...!!
Here are my photo of the week, guys:)

Cheers,

Shu Qin
xoxo ♥

I am yours

How to kill boredom??!!

I have no idea how to kill my boredom...

it seem like waste time again....

I feel do not want to slack at here...

all I want to have something different...

But what I expect, it seem to take a time to happen...

sometimes my boredom always influence my brain...

it does not work well at all....

Because we used to it, our laziness come over to influence us...

some of people kill their boredom by reading book, listening music or watching movie..

but if you stay at inconvenience place, what will you do??

I was trying to find some entertainment to kill my boredom..

but again, I felt the same....

I had high level on my boredom....

Really..!!how am I going to fight with my boredom...??!!

Definetly, I should find a way to kill of its...!!

Hello, Can someone tell me??!!

Maybe you have a unique option that I never do it before...

I need a time to do a meditation to think the way how to kill all of these virus??

I used to call my friend to kill my boredom as well..

but this time, the method is not going well....

Please drop some option to kill my boredom:)

Appreciate any option that you share....

Cheers,

Shu Qin

xoxo

Quote of day

'To change your way of life, you need to be willing to change the way you live your life'

'To know but not to do is NOT TO KNOW'

'To be a master of anything, we must be the master of the basics of that thing'

Inspiration by H

Hunger

Let me guess,Everyone always hunger with something that they want...

it can be food,apparel, knowledge, fashion and so on...

most of the elements come from learning and inspiration..

Which one do you hunger most?

Everyone wanna be different..

Everyone wanna be the best...

Everyone wanna be proffesional...

Everyone wanna be creative...

Am I right?

So Am I....:)

when come to my situation, I always hunger of food..

(one second, I guess everyone hunger of food..don't you??!!)

When come to reality world, I always hunger of learning...

I wanna learn as much as I can...

and I Promise to my self, I wanna be better...

if you want to be better in this life, Don't ever stop of learning...

Accept any comment and advice from others...

(Sometimes I feel difficulty to accept any comment from others. when I heard comment from others, it made me feel so down..but however it is, I should accept any comment to improve my self)

one more thing, don't be shy to ask a question...

Sometimes I expect too much from my self...

(Not everyone can't accept our expectation toward others)

I feel gratitude to anyone of you who never tired give me an advice and comment...

by giving me an advice, It make me to be better..

I always hunger of learning...

You don't ever feel tired to give me an advice...

"God allows us to experience the low points of life in order to teach us lessons we could not learn in any other way. The way we learn those lessons is not to deny the feelings but to find the meanings underlying them.”

by Stanley

Cheers,

Shu Qin

XOXO

Rihanna - Love the way you Lie (Dance Remix)

What do you guys think about it?

寂寞的季節 (Season of loneliness)

This song suddenly comes out from my mind....
even this song was old song, but I still enjoy to listen it...
Hope you guys enjoy of it...

Cheers,

Shu Qin
Xoxo

Chilhood buddies

“The essence of childhood, of course, is play, which my friends and I did endlessly on streets that we reluctantly shared with traffic.”
Bill Cobsy

it's never to late to have a happy childhood

Accidentally, I met all of my childhood buddies at one of international network website (Facebook)...
From that moments, we had contact each other....
I was quiet surprise and happy to meet you guys again...
Hope you guys had a great time during your vacation:)
for my new buddies (Adrian, Mary, Beny & Yohanes):
Nice to know you, people..
(Friendship is like a violin; the music may stop now and then, but the strings will last forever.)


Cheers,

Shu Qin

Quotes of the day

-I don't believe you have to be better than everybody else. I believe you have to be better than you ever thought you could be-

-Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation.-

Farewell Party....

How do you feel when some one who close to you leave you soon?
yeah, this is life,we should not always depend on others...
The best thing that we should do :
keep in touch and arrange time to meet up...
Farewell party picture:

Don't be dismayed by good-byes. A farewell is necessary before you can meet again. And meeting again, after moments or lifetimes, is certain for those who are friends.
Richard Bach

P.S I wish you all the best, babe..."Move forward, Don't Look behind" (This is what they told you before)
Keep in touch, babe...
For sure you will miss..!!No one can talk bullshit with you ..:)

Togetherness and happiness

Hey, people....
I hope you guys had a great day in this weekend
I was busy with my favorite activities with people surrond me..
I found happiness..
I found togetherness...
its bring me a live in this life...
Absolutely, I felt that time were different with others day...

it was fabulous day...
I am going to miss that moments...
Thank you people...:)

You can't bring back your happiness...
Enjoy every moments that you spent in this life...
Appreciate everything that you had...

To look at more picture, click here
See you guys next time...
By the way, nice to meet you, people:)

Photo Session

it's not easy to be a model...
it's not easy to be a photographer as well..
both of this actor are tough job...
No matter what, if we look at in different perception, we will get it....
if you confidence on your self, exactly you will become what you think...
Here are my photo session:

( just wait for full version)

if you re interest on all of these apparel, please kindly visit here

Short Conversation

Mr.Ng: Shu Qin, Do you know what does love all about?
Me: Hmm, I am not really sure what exactly love all about?
I think Love is something like sweet and sour...
Mr Ng: Love is bitterness...

Well, I really don't know how to answer this kind of question and I even don't know what exactly love all about. What do you think, guys?
Does love need sacrifice?
Yeah, sometimes we need to sacrifice for others and our self as well..

Hei mao yu niu nai (Black Cat with Milk)

I love this song so much...

it brings me happy all the times...

when I wake up, when I sleep,I quickly open my mp3 to listen this song..

it reminds me to unforgettable moments...

close your eyes and Listen this song with sincere...

Hope you enjoy this song, guys/gals...

Hope this song may bring your happiness too:)

Xoxo,

Shu Qin

Life & Loneliness

What does the life all about?

According to Mr.Mark Conner, Life is all about relationship.."Life is loving God and Loving People"

(I'm conscious your feedback about life)

Don't ever compare our life with others, it is always better or worse. it nevers equal.

Don't let our feeling is control by our condition. what others do or don't do must not be something that can control us.

(inspiration by one of my friend)

Be your self.!!never think about negative that make you grief, worry, despair and anger..!!

Throw them away..!!Cover all of these with your joy..!!

Don't allow worry to become like a prison that saps you of your joy, drains you of your energy and causes you to get caught up with your own needs. if you do, you will miss out on many opportunities to be blessing..

if you think you are not sattisfy enough with your life, why dont you think that other people's life more suffer than your life...

I can said" I am one of them..I never appreciate whatever I have now". Because of my greediness, I Should change it into Appreciate ..!!

Appreciate every single day that we face it daily...!!

I hope I am able to learn how to appreciate everything in this life:)

What does loneliness all about?

All of us come alone in this world. Don't you think that?

I can said: No..!!sometimes we need others to struggle together in this life..

Bring your independent to be Community part...

Remember, we re not alone in this world..you may share your barriers to the person who is trustworthy and you may ask them to pray for you..

we need people to assist us in becoming free...

In order to have whatever we want in this life, 2 things we need to do:

1. Constantly immerse ourself with all things that bring us power, ie. reading great books, listen to inspiring music, talk to great people, think inspiring thoughts

2. Avoid all that weakens you ie talk with negative people, keep complaining, mingle ourself for long period of time with losers, watch tv or news

(James A.Ray)

if you have a dream, you don't need to know how to get there...what is important is continuously feel as if you hv achieved ur goal and it can be achieved

To my Best buddy over there: " Dont ever think you are alone...whenever you need me, you may look for me.Feel empathy on you...!!Thank you for trust me to be your best buddy:)

Hope you can find it back soon:)

To Mr.H: Thank you for giving me your inspiration:)

Hope you guys enjoy :)

it's your move..!!

Cheers,

shu qin

I Love the way you lie

Messages of the day

" You will know the truth and the truth will set you free... if the son sets you free, you are truly free"

He stay with us...

I sat in the corner and think back about past...
I was asking my self " why??"
why did its happen to me??"
I was desperate, sad and down...
I really did not know how to do for next??
I told Him to gave me some guide...
He is so amazing..!!
He gave me indirect guide..!!
I know He stay with me...!!
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Special Thanks to Mr.Mark Conner for sharing some of guidelines...

I bought one of your book which is Prison Break-Finding Personal Freedom..

I really wish I am capable to grow up and have a new life ...

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Thank you, BB for your understand, support and motivate me all the times...
Just Remember, He also stay with you...
Good Luck for your final year..!!
Go...Go...!!
Do your best..!!
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He also stay with everyone in this world...
Be faithful on Him...:)
For sure He will guide you to find your journey...

Good night, People..!!
xoxo,
Shu Qin

SALT

Love Angelina Jolie's Action...
She is Amazing...!!
What do you think about this movie, people??!!

Summer's Desire

I really miss the moment when I was at university...
Play around with buddies....
Hang out with buddies...
Spent lovely moments with my love....
for sure watched drama till midnight...
Recently, I addicted of one of taiwan drama..
Summer's Desire released on May 2010


Huang Xiao ming makes me crazy...!!


I am falling in love with him...:)
He is so sweet, cute and handsome...
Watch this drama, people!!
Enjoy your day...
xoxo,
shu qin

Quote of the day

"Avoid popularity if you would have peace. "
Abraham Lincoln

"We struggle with the complexities and avoid the simplicities. "
Norman Vincent Peale

"This world of ours... must avoid becoming a community of dreadful fear and hate, and be, instead, a proud confederation of mutual trust and respect. "
Dwight D. Eisenhower

"I can't depend on others to make things happen so I will just have to do it by my self"
(anonymous)
I quiet agree and really love of this quote

it's okay not to know about something that we SHOULD NOT know...
There is a beautiful reason that hide over there...
this is life for you to move forward and step up
it's useless if you just sit in the corner and think about something NOT IMPORTANT in your life..
Be Strong!!Walk with God to find your intention...!!
Follow your heart, do it with your action..!!
We never know if we never try to do...!!
xoxo,
Shu Qin

unexpected

I never expect it will happen...
it suddenly come out by it self...
I feel so embarrassed....
after it come out, I feel much better...
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I feel so hurt...
my baby is going on operation next tuesday...
I hope it is going better...
I have asked around ," who can help my baby"
but no one are able to help my baby..
I hope I can find the right doctor:)

How to maintain long distance relationship

I found out one of blogger who share about long distance relationship, I really take this article as a learning. I think this article it's useful for those people who have long distance relationship. I have this inspiration by her. I feel gratitude when she share one of article about "how to maintain long distance relationship". at the same time, I am having long distance relationship now. I hope it will over soon (means I hope I can have short distance relationship with my love soon). Based on my observation, not everyone are able to handle long distance relationship unless you have faith and understand toward your love one.

Below are the article about how to maintain long distance relationship:

Discuss important matters beforehand. There will be lots of difficulties ahead. You need to be honest with what you expect from your partner and so does he or she. Be open if it is ok for both of you to date other people or making friends with the opposite sex, and the dos and don’ts. Discuss this with your partner and be very honest to each other so that it can reduce unnecessary suspicions.

Try to avoid jealousy. Jealousy and suspicions is the easiest way to destroy a relationship, no matter how much you love each other. Do not get mad if your partner missed your calls or unable to talk to you because he or she is busy. Leave a message and he / she will call when available. Do not get jealous and throw senseless question if your partner goes out for drinks with people. Never assume the worst. Maintain your social life and be happy. Do not isolate yourself just because your love is far away.

Stay positive. Brush away the negative thoughts and concentrate on the positive side. Being away with your dear is not that bad after all. You can use the available time to pursue your career, interest and hobbies. It also gives you opportunity to build your patience.

Do not attempt to be controlling. No one likes to be manipulated, not even you. Learn to trust each other completely to make the relationship a success. As long as both of you are sincere with the relationship, there is no need to control. Remember that control can damage any relationship just like jealousy.

Visit. If you have the budget, why not visit each other as frequent as possible? Phone calls are not sufficient to make long distance love survive. My friend visited his girlfriend at least 2-3 times per year, their relationship turned out well and they are now married. So, when you have every chance, go visit your partner.

Surprise each other. Surprise your partner with a card, a small gift or something you feel would really put a smile on your partner’s face. Snail mail requires effort but they are romantic. Better still, post your partner a gift!

Bond a lot. A long distance relationship needs lots of communication to make up for physical absence. Nurture and build your emotional intimacy when talking to each other. Update your partner adequately so that the lack of communication doesn’t cause you to drift apart and never ever end the conversation with any argument.

Blog it. Start an online journal like Blogger at www.blogger.com or a online friends network such as Facebook to share your daily dos, post photos or videos, or send virtual hugs, kisses or smiles. Text each other. Because your phone is with you all the time and text messages are instantaneous, you can feel like you are very close to each other. Get the text messages going with something like “Wishing you were here” or “I am thinking about you right now”.

Do things together. Long distance relationship is very challenging. Relying on phone calls and emails alone can soon be very boring. Thus, it is very important to do things together. For example, schedule a time to meet online and get a webcam so you can see each other, play games or watch a movie at the same time.

Hope this article may help your relationship:)

Thank you to her for sharing the article, you may visit her blog here

You can do it..!!

How stress are you?

How desperate are you?

Just believe on your self...

Be confidence on what you have done..!!

if we think our expectation are too high, perhaps we can lower our expectation a bit..

Be faithful..!!

Good Luck..!!

I know you can do it...!!

Loving and missing you...

xoxo,

Shu Qin

Follow your dream

Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined.

-Henry David Thoreau-

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.

-Eleanor Roosevelt-

Yeah, Everyone have their own desire, expectation and dream. if you believe on your capability, you are able to create your dream to be reality..

Build your dream with your confidence and faith..!!

Don't be fear to face it!!

Make it real..!!

What are you waiting for??!!

I always look for challenge in my life..

I wanna face different thing everyday..

I guess Does everyone..!!

xoxo,

Shu Qin

Friendship

I get inspiration by Pretty Little liar tv series..
Quotes for friendship:
"In good times, in bad times I'll be on your side forever more, that's what friends are for."
"Lean on me, when you're not strong, and I'll be your friend, I'll help you carry on, for it won't be long, 'til I'm going to need somebody to lean on."
"Thats what a friend is for, when your lost in darkness and searching for the light, to help you through those lonely nights, when everything around you fails just hold out your hand, and i'll come running, thats what a friend is for."
-Marty Keith -

belongs to me

Belongs to S

Belongs to L

-SLS-

xoxo,
Shu Qin