photo of the week (lovely sunday)

Hello, people...!!
How is your weekend??
what a lovely sunday....
it seems I slept more than 10 hours
(seldom happens in my life)

Here are my photo of the week:

Have a nice day, people...!!

Stay away from Negative!!

we feel what we feel not because of what happens or other do, it is because we choose to feel it...

Nothing is good or bad until your mind decides it to be so...

we need to monitor our thoughts...

because our thoughts affect our feeling...

thought means picture in our mind...

thought means our self talks..

thought means memory about the past...

Change what you think, and your feeling will be change...

a person who is washing dishes while angry and while in love is different...

The same job, but different feeling while doing it...

results may be different...

Inspiration by " Friend of mine"

"Do (Action)" and " Talk(Observe)"

I am pretty sure Theory has much different with Practice...
and at the same time, practice is difficult than theory...
So we should apply theory in to our action...
Just believe that " you can do it"
Confidence and capability are key elements of practice something...

Quotes of the day

"We learn more by looking for the answer to a question and not finding it than we do from learning the answer itself"

" Friends are helpful not only because they will listen to us, but because they will laugh at us, through them we learn a little objectivity, a little modesty, a little courtesy, we learn the rules of life and become better players of the game"

45 Lessons In Life

Hey, People..!!

what's up?How is your life??!!

Hope you guys are doing great...

Early morning, I received one article from someone...

it's about "45 lessons in Life"...

I guess this article is meaningful for all of us...

Thank you for sharing, there:)

Here are some points of lesson in life:

1. life is not fair, but it's still good

2. when in doubt,just take the new small step

3. life is too short to waste time hating anyone

4. Your job wont take care of you when you are sick.your friends and parents will.stay in touch.

5. paid off your credit card every month

6. You dont have to win every argument.Agree to disagree.

7. cry with someone. it's more healing than crying alone.

8.it's okey to angry with God. He can take it.

9. SAve for retirement starting with your first Paycheck.

10. when it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. make peace with your past so it wont screw up the present.

12. it's ok to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others.You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. if a relationship has to be a secret, you should not be in it.

15.everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry;God never blinks.

16. take a deep breath. it calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that is not useful, beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever does not kill you really does make you stronger.

19. it's never too late to have a happy childhood. but the second one is up to you and no one else.

20.when it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. no one is in charge of your happiness, but you.

26. frame every so called disaster with these words " in five years, will this matter?"

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. what other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything.Give time, time.

31. However good or bad situation is, it will change.

32. Don't take your self so seriously.No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God love you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

35.Don't audit life. show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing all beats the alternative-dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. all that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside everyday. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40.if we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

41. envy is waste of time. You already have all you need.

42.The best is yet to come

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield

45.life is not tie with a bow, but it'still a gift.

" Friends are the family that we choose for ourselves"

Hope you guys enjoy:)

xoxo

photo of the week

Hey, People..!!
How was your weekend??!!
Hope you guys enjoyed your weekend:)
I had happy weekend with my lovely dad and sister:)

My New Collection:

Here are my photo of this week:

We Love to Eat..
We love to try different taste of food...
To look at more picture, you may visit my facebook
Good night, People..:)
xoxo:)

Inception

Hey, People..!

What do you guys think about "inception" movie??
It's complicated but it's amazing movie...!!
Leonardo did a great job in that movie...
he is such a scientist person...!!
he creates dream to be reality...

Do you feel curious about this movie??

Here is the trailer of inception:

Hurry up...!!
watch it...!!
Duration: 2.5 hours
two thumb for this movie:)
Enjoy your day, people!!

Effective communication across cultures

Hey, People...!!

Do you have a problem on communicate with others??

I just want to share some important information..

I read some of articles about " Effective Communication"

Hope all of the points may help you:)

here is a checklist of points to remember:

* Show respect

*Show empathy

*Accept differences without judging, and learn to listen

*Accept that you may have to change your habits or mind set when communicationg across cultures

*Avoid Distractions

*Be Patient

*Look for similiarities

*send clear messages

* Learn to appreciate and accept when your theories and beliefs are different from other people's

*Do not treat one person as being a streotype of a particular group, but rather as a unique human being with individual qualities and attributes.

SINGFEST 2010

Hey, People..!!

I would like to share some information (entertainment) for you, People..!!

You don't have any plan for your daily live??

You don't know where should you go ?

Don't worry..!!

Aug will be great month for you!!

I have a good new for you, people who stay at singapore...!!

Katty Perry, Kenya West and others are coming to SINGFEST on Aug 2010..!!

Don't miss out...!!

The details Event:

it will held on 3rd Aug-5th Aug

Venue: Fort Canning Park

Time: 6 Pm

(to know more about this event, please click here for details)

Enjoy your day, People..!!

Love ya, xoxo:)

Welcome to the world-Jayden Brian

Yesterday, I was on the phone with grandmom...

and received a good new for our big family...

someone will call me " ai or auntie"

huh??!!Too old for me..!!

Anyway, Welcome baby to this world...

Great to see you, Jayden Brian...

unfortunately, I am not able to see you...

wait me back, ai will give you a kiss and hug..:)

Congrats to my lovely cousin...

He was my childhood mate...

I hope I will overtake you soon:) (hahahaha)

I love you, baby:)

xoxo

photo of the week

Hey, People..!!
Last week was "hula hoop" weekend
I regaled the weekend
I love to eat different kind of food...

Venue: Indo Chine, Rice Table, & Clark Quay

Quote of the day

Well, if you can't make it happen, and no one else can, there is only thing left to do, - finally look up and trust in God to make it right.

pyramid by charice

What a "GOOD DAY"

There are variety of consequences come over our life...

and we never expect of its...

sometimes, we feel curious and ask our self " why should those things happen to us?"

This is Life..!!we do not know what will happen on tomorrow??

life will come up dan down condition...

all of these are out of our mind...

when you face a condition that you never expect at all,

automatically you will feel stress, anxious, and emotional

and we do not know what should we do?

and sometimes we are not able to control our emo and ego..

we are unable absently all of these..

we should face it and fight for it..!!

we should sacrifice...!!

There is a way to handle our emo and ego:

"we should take a deep breath, think positively and have a patience to handle its."

Yeah, I know!!Theory is easier than practice..!!

For sure we can apply it slowly and step by step..

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I really never expect the precedent happens on me today...

Well, I had a " GOOD DAY" for a hour.

and I hope it wont happen for whole day..

and I hope it wont happen anymore

I will take it as learning and my experience...

I try to cover my day by think positive and listen the music that I Like.

Music brings in to good and positive mood

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Circle of life:

Bad day <-----> Good Day

Good Day<------> Special Day

Bad Temper <----------> Good Temper

Negative <-----------> Positive

unplans <--------> Plans

unexpect <---------> Expect

Addicted of you...

Every moments....
Every Morning....
Every Night...
I always remember of you...
You make my life become fantastic and great..
I enjoy the rhythm, music and lyric...
I enjoy listen their song every day....
Love you, 98.7FM!!!
You may check more at here.
if you want to add them in to your facebook list, please click here
Hope you guys enjoy listen their song...
98.7 Rock!!

Inspiration

I have inspired by them...

Love the way they sing...
Love their voice...

JS-Nobody (wonders Girl)

by giving me an inspiration, and now I know what should I do next:)
Hope you guys enjoy their song too
Xoxo

my babies

it's all about me...
blink blink pinky...
eventhough they was not perfect enough...
I love them so much:)

Movie Trailer-Eclipse & Inception

Hey, People..!!

Have you watch eclipse Movie?

what do you think about it?

Based on my perception,This movie is better than "twilight"

I Love it..

I love the romantic and action session...

If I were bella, I even don't know who should i choose..

it's hard decision to make...

I love edward most than jacob..!!
For those people who have not watch yet, here are the trailer:

Edward and Bella have happy ending in their love story...

I give 5 rates for this movie

I was enjoy watch this movie:)

another coming movie MUST Watch!!!

Based on the trailer, this movie is not bad...

I am going to watch this movie...

will give a comment about this movie later..

see you..

xoxo:)

Life is a learning & challenging

Sometimes we face our life up and down..

and we do not know what exactly will happen on tomorrow??

even we do not know what will happen on tomorrow?

everyone face a different life...

we should create our own plan...

don't only focus on one plan

we should create more than one plan to secure your life..

you should know what do you want...

ask your self and figure it out...

think of it and take action on its..!!

Do whatever you want and don't ever regret in every step you make..

sometimes, we need others to help..

but at the end of the day, we must be a decision maker on our life..

Learn as much as we can...

Don't ever tired of learning...

all i can say " life is a learning & challenging"

when you fall down, face an obstacle, and others..

dont give up!! Take it as a learning...!!

Be dare to face life..

create every day is a special day...

Peribahasa=Maxim

"mulutmu adalah harimau mu"

Photo of the week

Hey, People..!!
I had a lovely day^^
Wish you guys enjoy your day..
make everyday is special day..
Here are my photo of the week:

-wanted to grab one of long beach dress-

till now , i am not able to grab it..

Love you, mom:)

i was enjoy shop with you, mom
you made a wonderful life in my life recently...
Love you the most..
xoxo:)

How to be more positive and happy in life

Hey, People..!!

I would like to share some resources to create a positive and happy life in your life...

Hope this resources can bring in to your life...

life can present us with many suprises, dissapoinments, obstacles and even tragedies...

Thing's you will need to be positive in life:

1.Open Mind

2. Desire to improve

here are the number ways to practice being more positive in life:

1. Focus on exchanging your negative thoughts for positive ones. Make it a habit every day to get out of bed thinking more positive thoughts and engage your mind in preparing positive plans for a good day at everywhere.

2. Feel More Positive Emotions. Choose to have positive feelings whenever a challenge or an opportunity arouses your emotions.

3. Take More Positive Actions in Life. Use your positive thoughts and feelings to motivate constructive actions and to handle difficult tasks with a positive attitude.

4. Enjoy the rewards of your more positive thoughts, feelings and behavior in life.

5. Help others to share your new, more constructive frame of mind.

6. Keep learning throughout your life to help yourself and others continually improve.

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Thing's you will need to be happy in life:

1. self-discipline

2. Love

3.Positive Attitude.

How to be happy in life:

1. Maintain your health

2. Perfect your character

3. Always be learning

4. work dilligently. Keep striving and working hard and you should eventually see results.

5. We need to love other human beings to be happy in this life. Hopefully we will be loved back.Life will reward love.

6. Be Positive. . Because being positive is perhaps the best way of making good things happen. Being positive generates constructive energy that powers achievement.

7. Be Grateful. Try every day to be grateful for your blessings and opportunities. Be grateful for the people you care about and for the people who care about you.

8. Be Social.Interaction with others is a natural element in being happy in this life.

9. Plan Your Life. No matter where you are in your life it always seems to help to develop a plan for the future.

10.Be Assertive. Defend your rights by being assertive, but avoid being hostile or aggressive.

11. Be Frugal. You need to live within your means if you expect to be happy in this life.

12. We all have regrets; learn to put them behind you, if you can't do anything about them, to be happy in this life. But if you can correct mistakes that you've made in the past then by all means do it.

13. Be Spiritual if that's What You Believe and How You Feel.

14. Have Fun! Enjoy every day you can to be happy in this life. Delight in what is good and laugh at what is funny. Spend time with friends and family, enjoying their uniqueness, appreciating their talents, having fun with them, and loving them for who they are. Plan fun times in your life and make every day count.

Hope this article might help you in your life..

Good Luck:)

H.I.D.E & L.I.E= Honest & Acceptance

what do you guys think if someone lie to you on his/her personal matter?

eventhough he/ she is your close friend, sister or cousin or others...

will you accept this kind of situation?

just wonder why some of people do like that?

we should accept and understand the way they do...

maybe there is a reason behind..

in this case, you may tell your friend honestly instead of lie to them..

You may tell your friend : " this is a private matter"

fortunately, they will understand..

some of people like to play their word..

During conversation, we never realise that she/he tells lie...

but when we recall back, we will know whether the person lie or honest on you..

it's better to avoid to tell lie..

if you still continue tell lie, your friend will never trust on you...

Think positively, acceptance, trust are the elements to maintain and build your relationship with others

Hope we are able to practice it..!!

Xoxo:)

Quote of the day

"Life is not about how hard you can hit, but how much you can get hit and still keep moving forward"
"No one else can do it for you. Only you can make it happen. You're the only one that has to live your life"
"I take a simple view of life: keep your eyes open and get on with it"

I.N.T.E.R.E.S.T

Hey...!!
unique about me:
I am not able to stay at home for whole day...
but when I stay at home, I will do this and do that...
Here are the result:

I am going to make this year differently..
yeah...colorful life:)
Looking forward for this week activity:)
Wohoo!!Excited:)

Photo of the week

Hey...!!
How are you, guys??
Hope you guys are doing fine..
I feel great recently...
I just received this word
and I start think and learn on this word
wanna share this word to you, people:
"Understanding comes from love"
You might believe that you need to understand another to love them. The truth is you need to love them to understand them.
so Avoid judging,misunderstanding, underestimating and gossiping others...
it's better to think positively in every condition..
you will receive positive condition and environment..

Here are my photo of the week:

This week was different with others week...
it was fun, great and tired day...
This week concern on team building
anyway it was a great experience:)
see you guys...
xoxo